Author, Therapist, Coach, Husband & Father

Hey! I’m Ansar. Founder of ThrivinginRelationships.com, Author, Certified Therapist, Relationships Counsellor and Mindset Coach. I specialise in teaching relationships based around Evolutionary Biology and Psychology related to attraction and mating strategies. I teach you how to prevent and deal with the common problems that cause relationship and marriage break-ups to prepare you for long-term relationships and marriage success by teaching you the root causes.

With almost 50% of marriages ending in divorce in current times, I've dedicated myself to a mission to give individuals and couples just like you the skills, knowledge and solutions to overcoming the common causes of break-ups and divorces that I've acquired over the last 10 years. Here's a list of some of the problems I've successfully helped improve and overcome with my clients in the past:

  • Money

  • Lack of intimacy

  • Infidelity

  • Abuse

  • Lack of compatibility

  • Physical appearance

  • Addictions (porn)

  • Getting married at an early age

  • Getting married for the wrong reasons

  • Lack of communication

  • Lack of equality and loss of identity

If you have a problem with any of the above or something else entirely different related to human behaviour and relationships then get in touch and see if I can offer you some direction.

Relationship Counsellor & Mindset Coach Md Ansar Ali

I was going through a tough time when I had just moved to Birmingham… I was single… and I had NO IDEA how to meet women or attract them. At the age of 27 years I had never had a relationship or even kissed a woman let alone attract one. After 1 year of being in the city without making any friends I decided I was going to figure this out, no matter what it takes, I thought:

"I need to make finding my life partner a priority or I could end up being alone for the rest of my life, worse yet I might miss my window”.

It wasn’t exactly easy to “figure it out” using the normal channels of dating sites, false methods, tips and expectations from movies, magazines and poor quality relationship coaches (they were expensive).

The real “break” came when I discovered the seduction community of average guys calling themselves Pick Up Artists. I’m talking about guys who had figured out how to attract women without being famous or rich and proved through actions they could do it.

Now I know what you may be thinking, "oh he's one of those pick up artist coaches", NO! I don't teach pick up artist techniques because I discovered that although these techniques were good for initial attraction and building self-confidence in attraction, real relationships require a totally different approach that required understanding human nature, not just human desire.

Real connections require real people. Real problems require real solutions for long-term. With this in mind, the next stage of my learning was understanding what was causing relationships to fail and what was needed to make them thrive. I gained my diploma in counselling and gained an additional accreditation in relationship counselling.

The real magic happened when I combined the coaching and counselling with my in-depth studies in behavioural psychology, evolutionary biology and psychology. I finally created complete concepts (such as The PIES of Life, Me-We Coin Method) and many unconventional successful techniques I use to help people like you. I finally launched, thrivinginrelationships.com.

I'm currently in a successful marriage of over 5 years and my mission is to help at least 1 million people like yourself to learn how to create and maintain healthy, long-term relationships and marriages by using the methods, skills and tools I've gained over the last decade.

My passion is to guide you to believe LOVE is not complicated, unrealistic, scary, unhealthy, false, or controlling! It is beautiful – it’s right in front of you waiting for you to find it!

The only thing holding back your relationship potential is you!

We transform lives, not just emotions and thoughts!

My Mission is to help give you the guidance you need when it comes to preparing for relationships and self-worth. I aim to equip you with relationship skills and tools to use for your marriage and daily life that you can pass on to your children and theirs after.

You, and only you can make the decision to be the person in charge of your life. Or you can let someone else decide that for you!

I want you to be empowered to have the best relationships you can, be loved for being yourself and have the confidence to chase what you want and need in life to be happy. Ultimately find the love you deserve!

I would love to help you, if you allow me?